VCs shouldn't care about a founder's wedding -- but they should care about whether a founder is going to be stressed about going into debt to pay for a wedding.
A founder's personal life becomes relevant the moment it affects the successful management of the company.
I think everyone here is recognizing that. I'm only pushing back on the notion that words like "despicable" apply to investments and similar business decisions. They don't.
A founder's personal life becomes relevant the moment it affects the successful management of the company.