Which made car shopping quite a hassle for me because I wanted something that isn't very common (non-sport trim with highest spec options and manual gear) but which wouldn't have been any problem at all for the manufacturer (since they list those options on their site for those models).
But why do you think the system is setup this way? Car dealerships in the US having more money (or financing access) to keep stocks than other parts of the world? US customers wanting instant gratification for their purchase? (although, likely, anyone likes that over delayed car delivery, it's just that once you get used to instant car delivery is hard walk away from it)
Did you actually try to order what you wanted? I've been ordering my cars from the dealer almost exclusively for the past 25 years. Never had a problem. Sure, they'd rather sell a car off the lot, but I've never had one tell me they wouldn't order the car for me.
I did get rejected by Audi when I wanted to order a car in a special paint color. They advertised "any color you want, just $2500 extra". When I tried to take them up on it, the reply was, "We don't know you, your dealer isn't a top performer, and our custom paint shop is booked up over a year anyway. So kindly bugger off."
I suspect you’re paying a large premium. The last car I bought included a $10K discount off MSRP or a smaller discount with 0% financing, but only for in-stock inventory. That was before haggling, as those were pass-through dealer incentives.
Presumably, no one pays anywhere near MSRP for that model unless they custom order from the factory.
I’m sure it varies from manufacturer to manufacturer, but still.
Spitballing here: more land in the US means lower cost to stock cars in dealerships. Also makes it easier to do an impulse purchase with all the easy financing available, compared to the European scenario of waiting for delivery (and possibly changing one's mind).
Car dealerships often sit on prime retail locations. So that vast inventory will often sit in a location close to but not conveniently adjacent to the actual dealer.
But why do you think the system is setup this way? Car dealerships in the US having more money (or financing access) to keep stocks than other parts of the world? US customers wanting instant gratification for their purchase? (although, likely, anyone likes that over delayed car delivery, it's just that once you get used to instant car delivery is hard walk away from it)