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Not from work from home. My mother in law is in late stages cancer and we are not sure if she will make it more than a few weeks. The stress of not being sure if it is safe to fly out for one last visit has really added to our stress.

The kids need to go back to school as well.



I'm sorry to hear that. Is there any way to ask if she'd like you to fly out (assuming that is practical/allowed. In the UK everything is locked down)


This isn't about my mother-in-law. She will be gone either way, so at most it hurts here for a couple months. This is about my family looking at our last chance for memories. We are sad for us because we did enjoy spending time with her. We are sad for the grandkids that will never remember their grandma. In a couple months there will be no long phone calls. Already she will never again send us home grown pecans (too painful to get out and process them so they are selling this years crop to generic processors). Those are but a few of the things we are going to miss.

Note, the above is not a unique case to me, if it was I wouldn't say anything as my grief is a private matter. The details are different, but stories like the above happen every day. COVID just made this case slightly worse because it isn't safe to make the final visits.




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