It seems your dad has more self-awareness than most.
A better example is right there on HN. 90% of the content found on this site is just silly back and forths around trying to figure out what each other is saying because the parties never took the time to stop and figure out how each other works to be able to tailor the communication to what is needed for the actors involved.
In fact, I suspect I'm doing that to you right now! But I didn't bother trying to understand how you work, so who knows?
A better example is right there on HN. 90% of the content found on this site is just silly back and forths around trying to figure out what each other is saying because the parties never took the time to stop and figure out how each other works to be able to tailor the communication to what is needed for the actors involved.
In fact, I suspect I'm doing that to you right now! But I didn't bother trying to understand how you work, so who knows?