I do use Gentoo currently, but it's so very hard to keep programs from monitoring what happens in the system via dbus and the only firewall for outgoing connections, OpenSnitch, hard-depends on it. Running every major program in a container is NOT a solution.
So far Linus has kept these things outside the kernel, but he won't live forever.
Popularity contest comes from Debian. Although I see nothing wrong with it. It asks you on install, whether you want to use it, and you can uninstall it at any time.
If you leave Windows to retain the control for your computing, choose any other GNU/Linux among many. I chose Debian.